Lesson 28

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Taking my own advice.  Shuts up.

© The Best Year of Your Life by Debbie Ford

Lesson 28: Take Your Own Advice

One of the most exciting things I’ve discovered as a result of lecturing and leading workshops all over the country is that we’re always teaching others what we most need to learn. Sometimes we tell other people what they need to do as a way of reminding ourselves of what we need to do. For example, I often hear myself reminding people in my audiences about the importance of taking time off to care for themselves – advice I could definitely benefit from taking!

This week, pay close attention to the advice you’re giving others. Look for the ways in which this advice could serve you.

Your Self-Love Assignment

For the next week, observe the advice you give to other people. What do you suggest that those around you do to better their lives? Do you encourage them to speak out? To set stronger boundaries? To be less concerned with what others think? This week, as you give advice to others, notice if you could benefit from a little dose of your own medicine, and take whatever steps or actions you’ve recommended for them.

If you don’t normally give advice to others, think about someone you’d like to give advice to. What would you like to say? Now see if this advice applies to you.

Self-Love Points Earned

Give yourself 50 points every time you take your own advice.

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Hair – Dura – Girls*51 Black
Top – Baiastice – Orly Lingerie Silk Wine
Scene:

Geneve House by reBourne
Christmas Kitchen Shelf by Chez Moi {Hunt}
Keep Calm and Wine Frame by Collage
Roya Kitchen by Bazar
Chocolates & Star Tray by Keke @ The Chapter Four Gatcha
 

9 thoughts on “Lesson 28

  1. This is an excellent one!! Faving it to read and re-read before I hit publish! Tho I always readily admit my blog is me blogging to me in my head, this adds the extra caveat that I should not run off at the keyboard without going back and reflecting on what I wrote. Thank you so, so much! ♡

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    1. Alexa's avatar spunknbrains

      I think to a certain extent we are all like this… though any advice given to me has to resound in me otherwise I’ll likely dismiss it.

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    1. Alexa's avatar spunknbrains

      Great piece sis.. only think I might add is getting enough sleep, which I seem to be lacking these days with insomnia hitting me.

      Hope you’re doing well.

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