Summer Picnic

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There is a new round of goodies at FaMESHed and one of the delightful things you can find there is this Arlette picnic set from Aria.  It has so many wonderful and fun animations for a single avatar or for couples in the blanket along with several texture options.   The set also comes with several decorative items that make the setup totally complete for you to have a great time.  The basket and flowers also comes with several texture choices.  All the items are materials ready and are copy and mod.

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I had plenty of food out just for me — though who knows how long I’ll be sitting out here enjoying the breeze of the ocean and my own solitude.

Credits:

* Arlette Picnic Set – Aria @ FaMESHed
Decking – LISP – Bergamot Square Decking – Dark Oak
Water Lilly – 3D Trees
Cattails – 3D Trees
Grass Patch – [TUFF]

Hair – Wasabi Pills – Cookie in Night Shadow
Top – Drift – Morning Tank w/ Color HUD
Shorts – Drift – Solstice Shorts w/ Color HUD
Feet – Slink – Female Feet (AvEnhance)

Looking for the rainbow…

“The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.” ~ Dolly Parton

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I love a good thunderstorm and lately we’ve been getting some rain showers, though it wrecks havoc on plans and sometimes my lights go out.   In any case, it would be my thing to sit out like this in my screened in patio and play on my iPad, while listening to the rain.

This outdoor sitting set is from Aria and is currently available at this round of FaMESHed.  The set includes a sofa, which has single and couple animations with rezzable items and also give-able props.  The arm chair and the coffee table also include several animations with props.  Several choices of texture change for the cushions as well as the wicker and wood of each piece.  The plant also gives you the option of changing the color of the pot.

Credits:

*Chiara Set – Aria @ FaMESHed 
Khoi Yao Noi Palm Plant – Bahia Tiki
Vintage Camera w/ Tripod – Apple Falls @ June Arcade
Tea Time Teaset – Apple Falls @ June Arcade
Jute Natural Rug – Apple Falls {September 2013 Arcade}

Hair – [taketomi] – Ayame Blacks @ Kustom9
Top – Maitreya – Ana Top * Tie Dye Zero @ Collabor88
Shorts – Maitreya – Cut Off Jeans Shorts @ Collabor88
Feet – Slink – Female Feet (AvEnhance)

Nikka Living

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ARIA is participating in this month’s round of Collabor88 with its very own inspired coastal set named “Nikka.”   The set as shown here includes the sofa, table, rug, wall art and the decor items on the table.  It has one of my favorite features as previously mentioned, which is the texture change of materials and in this case the sofa, throw, cushions and the rug.

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Two versions available for your enjoyment, PG and adult and both come loaded with many animations and all items are copy and mod, as seen by my resizing of the plant in the corner.

Credits:

* “Nikka” Set – ARIA @ Collabor88
Aalis Rolled Drafts – ARIA
Abbotsford Hanging Shelf – Cheeky Pea

 

 

 

 

Time to Relax…

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Just what the doctor ordered!  A deep tissue massage.  Aria has released the Thalassa massage table along with some decor items for you to have just that.

The massage table comes in either a PG or an adult version, with lots of animations and the ability to change the texture of the wood and the leather.

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Here is a close up of the oils, towels and hot stones, which are incredibly realistic.  Other towels shown on the first picture. The land impact for all these items is fairly low.  You can find the massage table at this month’s round of The Men’s Department.

Credits:

Thalassa Massage Table – Aria @ The Men’s Dept.
Hot Stones, Oil & Towels – Aria @ The Men’s Dept
Oolong Teacup Planter Succulent Plant – Tropical RARE – Aria {June 2013 Arcade}
Oolong Teacup Planter Iris Mint – Aria – {June 2013 Arcade}
Cell Phone – Aria
Deborah Plant – Aria
Toronto Bathroom Carpet – Bazar
Gaia Standing Mirror – Aria
Nova Collection / Wall Shelf – Commoner

Dining in…

“The home should be the treasure chest of living” ~ Le Corbusier

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I have been out of town the last several days at a business meeting and it’s been a long time since I’ve used a laptop to get into Second Life.  It works fine in all honesty.  Though I just don’t find it easy to maneuver around and much less trying to put together a scene for blogging.   It’s great if I’m just sitting or standing and chatting.

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I’m glad to be home and able to use my desktop to put together this lovely furniture setting by Aria that was released at The Garden this month.   The complete set features the beautiful cut dining room table and sideboard that comes in three different wood textures.  You get four variations of the dining chair, that comes in PG or adult, and many color textures to choose from for the chair and the cushion.

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The whole set is materials enabled and has copy and modify permissions and the remaining set includes the vases, which are enlarged, pendant lights and flowers on the pictured on the table, which also gives you color choices.   Not part of the set, but still from Aria are the new curtains named Verna, which are available at the main store.  You can choose colors by clicking on them, which pops up the menu to change the fabric texture or the metal.   I did modify them to fit the windows.

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I am still working on improving my use of light in Second Life.  If anyone has any great tutorials, point me in the right direction.

Credits:

*Eva Dining Room Set – ARIA @ The Garden
{Dining table, chairs, sideboard, pendant lights, vases trio and flowers in vase}
*Verna Ruffle Curtains A – Aria {Modified}
Skaibeux Skybox 1.0 – [SLUG]
Nymph Statue – Tartessos Arts
Rico’s Clock – Apple Falls
Salvador Sculpture – Aria
Noor Mirror – Aria
Delphine Wall Lights – Aria
Celia Rug – Aria
Deborah Plant – Aria
Milo Deco Fruit Plate – Aria
The Odyssey: Vineyard Platter & Cutting Board – Ispachi

*Review copies

Shattered

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I found this shattered man statue at an animated texture shop.  It seemed like it would make a great decor item for the house, even if the space I have him in now is a bit tight for his outstretched arms. I’m breaking in the new mini furniture set that Aria released for this month’s FaMESHed event that consists of the sofa, table and vase with poppies.  I love the details on the sofa and kept going between the three colors and finally settled on this grey.  I must say that I really like when you can buy an item that gives you choices in the wood and fabric textures.  Personally, I am more inclined to spend lindens on an item like this for a set price than for an item with one color choice for the same price.  I also really like that some designers are allowing you to buy items individually.   I don’t always want the whole set, but would love to have a particular accessory that comes with the set.

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This cool jacket that I’m wearing is a group gift from .Shi.  It comes with a HUD to change the jacket color and comes with a fabric necklace.  The necklace took me a little time to fit almost right, but the hair covered the bit of imperfection, which is the necklace going through the jacket.  I believe this will vary by avatar and mine is a little bigger than normal.

Credits:
Hair – Exile – Stay the Night Raven
Jacket – .Shi – Ravel Cardigan w/ Necklace {Group Gift}
Bra – Mutresse – Dupla Bustier Bra w/ Color HUD
Pants – Erratic – Zoey Leather Pants Black
Shoes – ANE – Kallai Sandals Pure Black @ The Chapter Four

Scene:
House – [ba] – Sodermalm Loft
Curtains – The Loft – Bennet Drapes Mirrored
Luana Mini Set (Sofa, Table & Vase w/ Poppies) – Aria @ FaMESHed
Insolence Rug Brown – Tartessos Arts
Rug – Tartessos Arts – Classy Fur Rug
Food – Apple Falls – Chinese {Group Gift}
Cell Phone – Aria – Colette Deco Cell Phone
Chair – Kuro – Comfy Armchair  @ {Previous Lazy Sunday}
Vase w/ Sticks – La Galleria – Pottery Urn w/ Sticks {Subscriber Gift}
Books – Aria – Aurora Deco Book Pile
Book w/ Glasses – Aria – Aurora Open Book + Glasses
Wicker Magazine Holder – La Galleria
Lamp – Aria – Thalia Floor Light
Shattered Man Art Bricks & Concrete – Willem Mills
Plant – Aria – Nina Croton Plant
Frame – Collage – This Life
Staglady Statue – Kalopsia
Statue Woman Mesh – Willem Mills
Last Picture Pose – Dee Posed – The wall 43

 

Right at Home…

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness?  It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.” ~ Henny Youngman

Living Room

That quote made me have a good chuckle.   No mistake here.  I’m in the right house — this is my current accommodations.

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I really love my cozy kitchen.  It took modifying some of the items and making them smaller to fit in the space, but overall I really liked the way it came out.

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I used a mixture of old and new items, including hunt items.   My credits will be dragging. 🙂

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Credits:

Hair – Tableau Vivant – Low Hair – Equinox @ Collabor88
Dress – E C R U – Gwenyth Dress Texture Set 02
Necklace & Ring – LaGyo – Mother’s Pearls Set
Watch – [7891.] – Marco Loop Watch Gold
Shoes – Just Design – Coco Dark Packs
Feet – Just Design – My Feet Tip Toe

Scene:

Tarrytown House – L2 Studio
Ines Chairs Nostalgia Haze – Trompe Loeil
Ines Ottoman Nostalgia Rose – Trompe Loeil
Metal Wall Hanging – The Loft
Temple Jar – Apple Falls
Flower Frame – Apple Falls
Raffles Blue Oriental Arrangement – Patron
Ivory & Green Distressed Italian Console – La Galleria
Pendant Lamp – UrbanizeD {Store Closed}
Hang Over Curtains – LeeZu {No Longer Available}
Raffles Range Planter – Patron
Roya Fluffy Carpet – Bazar
CD Pyra Double Vase – The Loft
Coffee Maker – Apple Falls {Previous Advent Gift}
Creamer & Cups – Teawood
Tray – Alexa Maravilla
Fine Chocolates Box – [DDD] {Previous Hunt Item}
Couch – Tartessos Arts
Designer Table – Apple Falls
Romantic Rose Vase – [DDD]
Mathis Console Walnut – The Loft
Mesh Art Gazelle’s Head – Ispachi
Sweetwater Cacti Terrarium – Cheeky Pea
Digital Gramophone – Love to Decorate Group Gift
Arts & Crafts Books – Apple Falls
Green Glass Buffet Lamp – Trompe Loeil
Ines Wall Fountain – Trompe Loeil
Bridges Bar Cart – Pilot
Cocktail Mixer Set RARE – Erratic Home @ The Arcade
Wine & Whiskey – The Loft
Lemon Bowl Blue – The Loft
Frame – POE Jackson Palmer Photography {Hunt Gift}
Nollaig: Lantern Cluster – Ispachi
Glasses – The Loft
Books – Tartessos Arts
Totem – Tartessos Arts
Potted Hydrangea A – UrbanizeD {Store Closed}
Toronto Kitchen – Bazar
Milk Shake Mixer – What Next
Kitchen Cook Books – Aria
Pickled Veggies 2 – The Loft
Milano Kitchen Deco Condiments – Aria
Red Heart Art – Seven Emporium
Vita Knife Stand – Aria
I Love You More Than Cupcakes Art – Seven Emporium
Milano Kitchen Canisters – Aria
Aloe Pot Mini – The Loft
Portable Espresso Machine Grass – Standby, Inc. {Previous Arcade Item}
Instant Coffee Canisters – Standby, Inc. {Previous Arcade Item}
Coffee Bag – Standby, Inc. {Previous Arcade Item}
Cereal Boxes – The Loft
Colander – Agora
Spice Bottle Racks – Kopi
Arizona Trash Bin – Bazar
Toronto Kitchen Island – Bazar
Recipe Book – Agora
Lemon Basket – Bazar
Cherry Voulevants – Apple Falls
Steel Fruit Basket – The Loft
Art Picture Canvases – Ruby Rossini
Claryon Curtains Cream – The Loft
Mesh Easter Texture Change – Lisp
Artist Table & Stool – Tartessos Arts
Jam Jar of Paintbrushes – Lisp
Pin-Up Crane – Apple Falls
True Love Sign – Seven Emporium
Canvas Rack & Paint Tins – Apple Falls
Strelitzia Plant – The Loft
Padded Headboard – MudHoney
Ashworth Bed – Pixel Mode
Avenue Beige Rug – Tartessos Arts
Neoclassical Seat Country – Apple Falls

Lesson 36

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I may be redundant when I say the following.  It just feels like I’ve spoken this before or maybe I just thought these things and never wrote on them.

Normally, I talk about real life events when I do these lessons.  I primarily started doing the lessons for personal growth.  Since I am and interact the same in both worlds, obviously with a bit more care and on occasion maybe daring to do things I wouldn’t even consider in real life, Second Life would be part of that growth.  Though not doing much or interacting with that many people these days in-world it does limit my ability to utilize examples that could pertain to these lessons.

Today’s lesson brings to mind something that I have observed when it comes to liking or disliking things on Flickr or on blogs.  Being a blogger who likes to take pictures it’s only natural that I would like to shop.   One of the ways I have stayed in touch with what is newly released is by perusing blogs and Flickr.  Since I am talking about Flickr I will take time to mention that I don’t make it a practice to favorite too many fashion pictures as there are far too many that I like that it would clog my favorites.  Generally, I stick to liking landscapes, furniture pictures because it helps me remember things I own as well and recently I started to favorite pictures of things I want to go look for once released.   Mainly, I like favoring pictures that tell a story.   You’ve heard that statement that a picture is worth a thousand words.   For a great example, I recently liked several photos of Harvey Crabsticks as they were a sequence and telling a story.  I love that sort of thing.

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To my observation.  I have noticed that many people will like a picture of yours just because you liked one of theirs.  I simply don’t understand that.   I rather you like my picture because you really do like it, other than liking it because I happened to like one of yours.   I do believe that sometimes we will go and look at someone’s work when we note they liked one of ours.  I have done this, and will like something I might have not seen.  Flickr pictures are being uploaded continuously by members you follow that there is bound to be pictures that you will miss.  That being said I still see this soft token of “people-pleasing” in observance.  The same thing applies to blogs.

In short. It’s not a big deal.  Like to your hearts content.  Just an observation.

The Best Year of Your Life by Debbie Ford

Lesson 36:  Please Yourself

People-pleasing is one of the great epidemics of our times. I know so many people who can’t seem to find the time or energy to nurture their own dreams or bring their goals to fruition. Could it be that people-pleasing is the silent culprit behind their exhaustion and over committed schedules?

Many of us learned early on that pleasing others is a good way to receive validation or affection. And now it’s become a habit that we perpetuate even though it doesn’t serve us or our visions. This week, take your focus off of pleasing others, and instead look for ways to please yourself.

Your Self-Love Assignment

Reflect on one area of your life where you feel resentful, powerless, or resigned. Allow yourself to see how many of your actions in this part of your life are driven by your need to please others. What lengths do you go to in an attempt to get others to like you? Do you pretend to be the “nice” guy or girl? Do you conceal some of your brilliance or hide some of your power so that you won’t intimidate others?

Next, ask yourself if your quest to be liked and please others has actually paid off. Is it bringing you what you want?

Allow yourself to see what would be available to you if your first commitment were to please yourself. How would that affect your sense of worthiness, joy, and self-love?

Finally, identify three actions you could take this week that would be pleasing to you … and take them.

Self-Love Points Earned

Give yourself 50 points for every action you take (or don’t take) that pleases you!

Credits:

Eyes – Ikon – Perspective Eyes Midnight
Hair – CaTwA – Sandy V2 Hair
Dress – Color.Me.H.O.F. – Mesh [Victoria Dress[Plum] @ Collabor88
Earrings – Lazuri – Silver & Black Onyx Earrings
Ring – RYCA – Rig Gold/onyx
Shoes – !SSD – Mata Hari Jeweled Stilettos {must be worn with Slink AvEnhance Female High Feet}
Feet – Slink – AvEnhance Female High Feet
Pose: Seduction Poses by Di’s Opera

Scene:

Tampa House – InVerse
Grand Piano Mesh -Michigan Shack
Salvadore Sculpture – Aria
CB Potted Plant (pink marble) – Tygra Lefavre/Casa Bella (came with CB Luxury Skybox)
Curtains – HEAVILY EDITED from pieces of Fanatik Curtains & Sanctuaire Curtains
CB Floral Creme Rug & CB Rizzy Rug Sculpted – Tygra Lefavre/Casa Bella (came with CB Luxury Skybox)
Sakura Tree – Nadine Reverie/3D Trees
Yellow Forest Daisy Flowers – Bunnie Badger/Two Moon Gardens
Yews & Garden Hedges – Nadine Reverie/3D Trees
Stone Wall & Gate – AA Build & Design
Japanese Tori Gate – Botanical
MK-BT Bo Maple Tree – Mitsuko Kytori {just visible in background}

Life…

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…isn’t always black and white.

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Credits:

Eyes – Ikon – Eternal Eyes Paradise
Eyelashes – Redgrave – 19 Diva & 31 Extra Long
Hair – CaTwA – Mesh Abi
Lipstick – Bilo – Nasreen Lip Crackle
Dress – CaTwA – Marilena White plus Color HUD
Jewelry – Yummy – Teardrop Gemstone Diamond Set
Shoes – N-Core -CINQ White

Scene:

Tampa House – inVerse
Bed Curtains – MudHoney – Priya Bed Curtains
Bed – MudHoney – Rita Bed White
Headboard – MudHoney – Padded Headboard
Seat – Apple Fall – Neoclassical Seat Monochrome
Rug – Tartessos Arts – Bokeh Rug
Book – Aria – Aurora Open Book + Glasses
Butterfly Art – Aria – Daphne Wall Flutter {in black — white is modified}
Chest – Apple Fall – Mother in Pearl Inlaid Chest
Boat Art – Ispachi – Mesh Art Isolde

 

I want to go too…

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Sometimes you  have to leave the little girl behind and let the big girl come out to play.  ❤

Credits:

Alexa –
Hair – LeLutka – Seiko in Pitch
Lipstick – BlackLiquid – Mauve Pink Gloss
Earrings – Bens Beauty – Wish Earring – Platinum
Necklace – Maxi Gossamer – Jewelled Hand of Fatima
Dress – Sassy – Night Out – Plum @ 60L Weekend
Bracelets – Retro – My Memory – Silver @ Stuff in Stock
Shoes – Similar – Trieste Thigh Boots – Color HUD

Sydney –
Hair – Love Soul – Hair *140* Jet Black
Outfit – Itsy Bitsy –  Sugar & Spice/Snips & Snails Set @Lazy Sunday for Kids
Socks – Totsipop – Scrunchy Socks – Pink
Pose – Lovely Smiles – Pose Pack 156
Scene:
Geneve House – reBourne
Bathroom Sink Cabinet – Bazar {heavily modified to size}
Delphine Wall Mirror – Aria
Gaia Makeup Tray by Aria
Vanity – Jewelry Tree RARE by Tres Blah {June Arcade}
Vanity – Makeup Bag RARE by Tres Blah {June Arcade}
Vanity – Brushes – Tres Blah (June Arcade}
Vanity – Toiletries- Tres Blah {June Arcade}
Delphine Soap Dish – Aria
Ines Rug – Aria
Harper Rug – Aria
Delphine Wall Light – Aria
Delphine Hand Towel – Aria
Deco Slippers – Aria
Bathroom Scale – MudHoney
Seville Bath Shelf – MudHoney
Pile of Towels – MudHoney
Tincture Bottle Rose – Keke {September Arcade}
Tincture Bottle Lavender – Keke {September Arcade}
Labeled Medicine Bottle Moon Drops RARE – Keke {September Arcade}
Pampas Grass – Kidd
Port Isaac Pier Complete – Cheeky Pea
Object34Mesh by Vandelo (this is the Green Plant)