Listen to the rain

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The night before I had a trip down memory lane when I ran into someone that I met at a music venue back in 2011 the year I started in Second Life.  Over time the different time zones — west coast vs. east coast and life in general we lost touch along the way.  I teased him about not having changed much as he was still in the same skin and wearing different yet signature black sunglasses — even if back then he was the first male avatar that I thought had decent looking pixels.

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That we meet up again at a music venue — well that too hasn’t changed as music was and is still one of his passions here.  Toto shares ownership of  Dinah Moez Diner, where they serve up aural delights most Saturday nights so go check it out on the weekends if you’re looking for some great live music entertainment.

As we were talking I remembered that he accompanied me on one of my exploration trips, which got me thinking if I had saved any of those pictures.  I really liked this sim for it’s walking trail that spanned the sim as seen in the first picture. It had lots of sheep and rain as you can see in the picture below, but for the life of me I cannot recall the name.

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I wonder if it’s still around.  Having found the pictures it was fun fixing them up with the skills that I know today.

Check me out — I was a redhead back then.

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I believe this song played on the sim.

A life lived in gratitude is a quiet joy

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A bit of rustic charm for you today.  The We ❤ Role-Play event opened a few days ago on the 4th and Aisling, who is quite known for their spectacular role-play clothing also makes furniture from time to time.   They have this dining table set, candles and hanging plants at the event that are fantastic for that rustic or country feel.  Find all the details below as they all come with texture change options.

Hope you’re having a great Monday!

Credits:
*Furniture by .aisling. @ We ❤ Role-Play
Dinner Table and Chairs
-1 li each
-5 wood textures
188Ls

Hanging Plants
-1 li each
-4 plants textures / 2 styles
-4 pot textures
-Long and short version
150Ls

Wooden Candle Holders
-1 li each
-5 wood textures
75Ls

Princess Jezibell – Scarlet Creative
Berries Wreath and Sconce Set B White – Storax Tree for Winter Wonderland Hunt
Riding Boots, Burlap Basket & Babys Breath Decor – Flux Sur Mer {past opening gifts}
Blueberry Pancakes – GA Home
Baby’s breath-Leroy – Quark Fallen {no longer in-world}
Apothecary Cabinet – Zigana 
Hanging Books – Zigana
Lazy Sunday Chair Neutral – Zigana

Winter Wonderland

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I can’t decide if I want to be in awe of the falling snow or I’m about to take a tumble for being on a slippery iced bridge.  The pose I’m on is actually more towards the middle of the bridge.  I did some major adjusting to be able to show the Christmas outfit by Q’s Quties that lil me is wearing.  It is available at the All The Little Things.

The snowy bridge, bench, snowman and sign are all part of a Winter Wonderland gacha from Buglets at the Playroom that just opened yesterday.  They are miniature size for the toddleedoo and all the pieces are great for setting up a winter wonderland for the little ones.

Credits:
Hair – [Love Soul] – Hair *138* Jet Black
*I ❤ Santa White Complete Outfit – Q’s Quties @ All The Little Things

Scene:
*Winter Wonderland Gacha – Buglets @ The Playroom
-Bridge
-Sign
-Bench
-Snowman
Winter Grass & Trees – Little Branch @ Lost & Found
Water Reed Mace Snowy & Rocks Snowy – Heart Center

I’ll be home with bells on

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I think the bell on the wreath made me think of the song “I’ll Be Home With Bells On” when I looked at the picture this morning.  It’s a holiday classic that still brings a smile and makes you want to stomp your feet.  I am listening to it as I’m sitting here writing and starting to get energized.

I absolutely love the feel of a cabin as it conjures up an image of a large fireplace roaring with a warm fire and the idea of sipping hot chocolate all the while in long johns and fuzzy socks.  Chuckles.

The complete Christmas living room set is by HJM Designs and is currently available at the Perfect 10 Event at the Cookie Jar.  It comes with a rez system so it’s fairly easy to set up or you can just rez and move items about.  It’s discounted at the event for half price at only $199L.

Hope you have a fabulous Saturday!

Credits:
*The Lodge Christmas Living Room Set – HJM Designs @ The Cookie Jar for Perfect 10
– Couch with 31 single animations and 28 couple animations
– Chairs with 25 single animations
– Christmas Tree
– Coffee table
– Christmas Driftwood Tea light
– End Table
– Angel Chimes

Primitive Angel Duo – Finishing Touches {past hunt item — though similar at store}
*Holiday Decor :: Garland & Wreath Swag – Jian @ Tannenbaum Holiday Market
Gift Boxes – Clutter {Boxes & Christmas Textures separate items}
Basset Hound – Just Animals
Enchanted Woods – – Studio Skye
Christmas Holly Wreath – Wood Works  for Let It Snow Hunt

Plant’er Right Here

Check out this new hair style by enVOGUE.  It’s rigged and fitted mesh and is available in a whopping 96 colors, plus root and ombre colors too.  There are 12 colors for the cap and is now available at the main store.   The earrings, which are called nightmare are by Le Morte and are available at this round of Totally Top Shelf.  Both the hair and earrings come with a texture change hud.

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A friend asked me a question today that I’ll share.  It was this.  If you love someone and you are upset and angry, would you rather be with others or with that person you love?  For me it was a no-brainer, so I didn’t hesitate in saying the person that I love. I did add that if I’m angry and upset with the person I’m in love with — well then I might want to go off and be alone until I cool off.

Then we sort of had a brief discussion on what it really means when someone who professes to care for you does exactly that when they’re upset — spends time with others instead of you and while the explanation might seem plausible it has a ring of untruth in it.  Could it be their feelings are not really true? Playing games — I want to have my cake and eat it too syndrome?

For the record we are talking about relationships within the framework of Second Life that are supposed to be based on good intentions.  That of developing a relationship that involves real thoughts and feelings and going outside the realm of this platform. Mind you we didn’t really come up with an answer — just mindful that distortion can occur when you’re in a world built around fantasy.  Some people are just wired differently.  What do you think?

Speaking of I want to have my cake and it too.  I’m sure this probably happens to you men too.  I’m strictly saying it from some of my experiences lately, so here is my advice to some of you men in this virtual world.  It’s all nice and great when you want to compliment a woman on her looks or even something in her profile.  “I get it. You’re just being polite”.   My 22-year old niece would say, but Tia (aunt) they just can’t help themselves with my beauty and they have to speak it out.  I love her. She makes me laugh.

Though guys if you’re wondering why you may not get a response — perhaps you need to check your partner box and put your eyes back on the woman standing next to you or the one you’re dancing with.

I’ll confess that I don’t often look at the profile before I respond with a simple thank you and close the box.  Though what if that partnered someone tries to then engage you in a conversation beyond that?  Do you close the box once again and completely ignore? Or do you give them a piece of your mind?

I choose to go with the first option.  I just don’t have the desire or the willingness to engage even further.  What about you?

I’ll have to save my very favorite experience of the week for another day, because I’m late with my postings today.

Credits:
*Hair – enVOGUE – Lynette
*Earrings – Le Morte – Nightmare Earrings @ Totally Top Shelf
Necklace – Izzie’s – Color Heart
Dress – e! – Trinity Sweater Dress (Store closed in-world only MP)

Pose: “Much Mistletoeing* Plant’er Right Here by Le Poppycock

Peace and tranquility begins inside of you first

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Are you all done with your Christmas decorating?  I’m not. I don’t even have a house down right now.  The momentum is building to create something with all these Christmas decorations that I’ve been showing.  Maybe I will work on that this weekend. Maybe. I just desire to be foolishly free and unencumbered and have fun and enjoy myself again.

If you’re still looking for Christmas decor today I am showing some pieces from [CIRCA] that can be found currently for a few more days at the Color Me Project.  The pouffe, bench and area rug and twig tree planter are in an exclusive winter blue color for the event. They will be discounted at 25%.  If blue is not your color head on over to the store where you can find these items in another color or find plenty of other Christmas decor.

The Perfect 10 event is also now open for it’s December round and the tree candle trio on the console is by Kaya’s Ray of Sunshine that can be found in this color and several other festive Christmas colors.

I will be showing a few more Christmas items in the next days so stick around.

Credits:
*”Polar Drift” – Snowflake Pouffe – Frost􀀊􀀊 – [CIRCA] @ Color Me Project
*”Polar Drift” Bench – Winter Blues – [CIRCA] @ Color Me Project
*”Polar Drift” Area Rug – Ribbed Icy Blue – [CIRCA] @ Color Me Project
*”Polar Drift” Twig Tree Planter – Winter Frost – [CIRCA] @ Color Me Project
*”Polar Drift” Tray Table with Treats (Short) – [CIRCA] @ Color Me Project
*Winter Tree Candle Trio Sweet – Kaya’s Ray of Sunshine @ The Cookie Jar for Perfect 10
Curtain – Cream Linen – +Sanctuaire+
Decorative Sleigh Natural with Pillow – Trompe Loeil 
Cotton Cluster – Apple Fall 
Clifton Cast Iron Fireplace (White) – Apple Fall 
Procol winter wreath – Second Spaces {previous Spruce Up Your Space Item}
White Painted Console – Boathouse
Log Candle Centre Piece – Shutter Field

Be like melting snow — wash yourself of yourself

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Sometimes I have so much to say and other days like now I sit here waiting for the words to flow and nothing comes out.  It’s not like my mind is totally blank. In fact my mind is racing with too many thoughts floating around in there… like what do I need to get done today to where did this year go?  It will be dad’s birthday in a few days and I’m no longer near to take flowers to his grave site.

Then there is a ping beside me letting me know there is a text on my phone and a good reminder to get out of my thoughts.

Some more awesome winter trees by Little Branch out now at FaMESHed.  The gazebo is by Dysfunctional Designs as well as the whimsical umbrella that is texture changeable by touch and both can be found at the main store.

Credits:
Hair – Argrace – Irori
Sweater –  ::FAC:: – Mijo
Skirt – Maitreya – Haerringbone Grey
Boots – Reign – Marylin
*Whimsical Umbrella – [DDD]/Dysfunctional Designs

Scene:
*Ornamental Gazebo – [DDD]/Dysfunctional Designs
*Conifier.V2 {Seasons} – Little Branch @ FaMESHed
*Conifier.V1 {Winter} – Little Branch @ FaMESHed
*Conifer.V3 {Seasons} – Little Branch @ FaMESHed
*Grass1l {Winter} – Little Branch @ Lost & Found
Elk Male Grazing & Looking – Just Animals

Pose: Female Model Pose 57 by Exposes Poses

Taking a fall makes the getting back up all that much sweeter

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Today All The Little Things opens and here are some cute things from Happy Puppy.  The carousel is the rare item in the set of carousels that on touch turn.  The ladybug is a gift at the event, so make sure you go grab yours.   Lil me is also wearing a kitty hat by Buglets that is at this round of Hello Beautiful.

The pose is also at the All The Little Things event, and is for toddleedoos though as you can see it worked just fine for me.

Credits:
Alexa~
Hair – Truth – Ryleigh
Top – Blueberry – Roro
Jeans – Blueberry – Mia Jeans
Boots – Reign – Moccasin Boots

Sydney~
Hair – Magika – Little
Outfit – Baby Pie – Winter Cardi Skirt Combo
*Hat – *Buglets* – TD Kitteh Hat @ Hello Beautiful

Scene:
*Penguin Carousel Rare – Happy Puppy @ All The Little Things
*Queen Ladybug Lamp – Happy Puppy @  All The Little Things
*London Winter V1.1 – Little Branch @ Lost & Found
*Grass 1 l {Winter} – Little Branch @ Lost & Found
Snowdrifts – Studio Skye

*Pose: Slide by p.o.s.e Kids @ All The Little Things

Just taking a moment to breath is always good

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I was in a bit of a lazy mood last night preferring to go out and enjoy Second Life for once instead of trying to get my blogs for this week prepared.  I did manage to do a couple of photos to get my week started.

I’m simply featuring this group gift by MoDANNA, which is the dress that I am wearing.  If you’re not familiar with the store, it is a mesh apparel store that also does clothing with the use of appliers for most bodies and also using the omega system.   The group is free to join and every month you get a free and exclusive group gift.

Enjoy this fabulous day!

Credits:
Hair – Truth – Ryleigh
*Dress – MoDANNA – La Petite Robe Noire {December Group Gift}
Scarf – Tee*fy – Oversized Cozy Scarf UnRigged – Plaid @ Collabor88
Boots – Reign – Moccasin Boots

Scene:
Country Girl with Horse – Focus Poses
Enchanted Woods – Studio Skye
Winter Dog Rose – 3D Trees
Winter Forest Thicket – Kismet

 

It’s the season for baking and having fun

Showing more bears today — the baking ones from Boogers coming to the Arcade in just a few more days.   Plus lil me is wearing this cute reindeer costume from Heirloom Treasures at the upcoming new round of All the Little Things.

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I’m a bit tired today from pushing myself a little hard yesterday by walking two miles straight without stopping.  It probably didn’t help that I stayed up into the wee hours of the morning reconnecting with an old friend.  It’s kind of funny that when you least expect it you have one of those days where everything just flows and you just feel things are changing.  Maybe it’s only because I’m coming out of the box I’ve been in for so long.  I don’t know other than its starting to feel different and it feels good.

I also had an amusing time yesterday by going into InWorldz for an hour or so and what an interesting experience. The last time I logged in was when I registered a name there over two years ago and so upon entering I landed at their welcome center.  There was a group of people there that were just the most friendliest I have ever experienced in a long time.  Most of the individuals, all except one, were dressed in what I remember from my early start of second life.

This one guy had skin that was modern second life and was dressed in clothes that was either mesh or just extremely good quality.  We ended up striking a conversation and he shared his perception of the differences of both virtual worlds. He was a previous builder in this world and that explained his skin as he made it and imported into that world.  I think the most interesting observation was his remarks of how less toxic people were there compared to here.

I think that is a personal experience depending on where and who you surround yourself with and the kind of person you are as well.  Maybe there’s some truth to that quote of being careful who you invite into your life, because you’re not only inviting them you’re inviting all their demons too.

Credits:
Hair – [Love Soul] – Hair*113*
*Reindeer Costume – Heirlooms Treasures @ All the Little Things ***Coming December 1st***
*Christmas Cookies – p.o.s.e. kids @ All The Little Things  ***Coming December 1st***  {is from Xmas Pose}

Scene:
*Cookie Jar Bear – *BoOgErS*@ The Arcade ***Coming December 1st***
*Grand Mother Bear – *BoOgErS*@ The Arcade ***Coming December 1st***
The Dreamers Cottage – Dust Bunny
Small Spaces Kitchen Sink Cabinet, Island Cabinet, Vintage Stove and End Cabinet – Dust Bunny
Granny’s Winter Cottage – Baking Set – 8f8
Granny’s Winter Cottage – Gingerbread Cookies Plain – 8f8
Kitchen Basics – Coffee Pot 1 – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Cookie Jars (Pink) – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Plates – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Shelf (Yellow) – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Scale (Cream) – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Preserves – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Full Shelf Rare – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Misc – Tres Blah
Kitchen Basics – Bakeware 1 – Tres Blah
Milk Case – Kalopsia {past FaMESHed gift}
Artist StoolWood – Follow US