“Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky.” ~ Rabindranath Tagore

When I read this week’s lesson my thoughts were, “ohhh so true”, and I really can’t wait to actually do the assignment. It might not look good at the end when you recognize those choices you made that created situations in your life that were frustrating and caused you anxiety and stress. They may even pinpoint self forming destructive patterns in our lives. Right off the bat I can think of several choices I made over the last year that were done out of fear. So this lesson really speaks to me this week.
© The Best Year of Your Life by Debbie Ford
Lesson 16: The Power of Choice
Most of us have lost sight of the relationship between our choices, our actions, and the outcomes we experience. But our lives as they exist right now are the result of every choice we’ve made up to this point. The choices we make – today, tomorrow, and every day this year – will either keep us stuck repeating the patterns of our past or they’ll move us powerfully toward the best year of our lives.
By becoming responsible for the choices we make, we take our destiny into our own hands.
Your Self-Love Assignment
Reflect on an area of your life where you’d like to create a different result. Write down exactly what you would like to change in this area.
Now make a list of all the choices you’ve made in the past 12 months that were in direct opposition to the fulfillment of this desire. Allow yourself to see the choices you made that disempowered you, that came from a place of fear, and that were unconscious or self-sabotaging.
Finally, identify two choices you can make this week that will move you closer to the result you desire.
Self-Love Points Earned
Give yourself 50 points for every choice you make that leads you in the direction of your goals.
Credits:
Hair – Alice Project -Delilah {Natural Redhead II} @ FaMESHed
Coat – Ison – Oversized Wool Coat Camel @ Collabor88
Top – Amerie – Tank Long Black
Jeans – Ryvolter – Boyfriend Jeans Dark 01 @ The Seasons Story
Scarf – Mr. Poet – Texture Change Scarf {in-store gift}
Shoes – Similar – Vicenza Red Patent
Pose – Caash – Umbrella Female Couple Pose Prop {previously at Soho Market}
While I love finding destinations to take photos, sometimes I love just making my own scenes like this one.
Props:
Boat Dock by Doomkope Designs @ Market Place
Talakin Small Boat @ Market Place
Best Rain by Dwelling Quay
The lightning effect was made by a friend for me.